- Try not to squabble over whether they are now ‘home’
For an individual with dementia, the term ‘home’ may depict more than the spot they presently live in. Frequently when an individual with dementia requests to return home it alludes to the feeling of home instead of the care homes stevenage itself.
‘Home’ may address recollections of a period or spot that was agreeable and secure and where they felt loose and more joyful. It could likewise be an indefinable spot that may not truly exist.
It’s best not to contradict the individual or attempt to prevail upon them about needing to return home.
Attempt this all things being equal:
Attempt to comprehend and recognize the sentiments behind the wish to return home. Find out where ‘home’ is for them – it probably won’t be the last spot they resided. It very well may be where they resided prior to moving as of late or it very well may be someplace from their far-off past.
Frequently individuals with dementia portray ‘home’ as a charming, quiet or unspoiled spot where they were blissful. They could be encouraged to discuss why they were cheerful there. This can give a thought regarding what they could have to feel significantly improved.
- Console them of their security
The craving to return home is most likely a similar longing anybody would have on the off chance that we wound up in a bizarre and nonsensical spot.
Attempt this all things considered:
Console the individual verbally, and potentially with arm contacts or hand-holding assuming that this feels fitting. Tell the individual that they are protected.
It might assist with giving consolation that the individual is as yet cared about. They might be residing someplace not the same as where they resided previously, and need to realize they’re cared for.
- Take a stab at redirecting the discussion
Keep a photo collection convenient. Now and again taking a gander at pictures from before and being allowed the opportunity to think back will ease sensations of uneasiness. It very well may be ideal to try not to pose inquiries about the image or the past, rather attempting to offer remarks.
On the other hand, you could have a go at redirecting them with food, music, or different exercises, like a walk.
- Lay out whether they are feeling despondent or forlorn
An individual with dementia might need to ‘return home in light of sensations of tension, frailty, despondency or dread.
Is the individual with dementia blissful or miserable at this point? In the event that they are troubled, finding why might be conceivable. On the off chance that they can’t explain to you why maybe an individual from the staff or another inhabitant knows why.
Like others, somebody with dementia might carry on a character to individuals nearest to them because of a terrible state of mind or awful day.
Does the individual with dementia continue looking at returning home when individuals are not visiting them in the care home? Does the individual appear to have settled in any case? The staff in the home might be aware.
- Keep a log of when they are requesting to return home
Certain times may be more awful than others. What is by all accounts the shared factor about these times? Is it close to feast times (and could a bite maybe help)? Is it during times when the climate is noisier than expected? Is it later in the day and perhaps due to ‘sundowning’?
In the event that you see an example, you can do whatever it takes to diminish or keep away from a portion of the triggers.